We are moving into our 3rd month of living a Domestic Discipline marriage.
We've read articles, books, blogs, websites and what ever we could read to find guidance in making our own decisions about what works for us.
Some sites urge HoHs to punish their TIHs for the smallest infractions.
Other sites deem communication as the most important factor in a Dd relationship/marriage.
There are blogs that advocate reminder and maintenance spankings - hoping these will keep the heavy discipline punishments at bay.
Some advocate daily spankings, and others a couple times a week or when necessary.
We're finding out what works for us - and at the moment, I find relinquishing total control to Jack very difficult. Therefore I appreciate reminders to help me find my new role and give up the old.
The dynamics of a Dd relationship are so different from what we've lived before.
I don't want to change my personality, but I do want to be submissive by handing over control to Jack and letting him know how much I appreciate all he does.
I think I'm at the stage where I don't really know where I am!! - I'm kind of on my way out and on the way into something - like having a foot in each world!!
All I know at the moment is, that our version of Dd has helped our marriage to a better place.
With hope for Peace in the new year.
Season's Greetings to all you wonderful people out in Dd land!
Jack and Jill