Thursday, February 21, 2013

How Discipline Benefits Both Jack and Jill

Domestic Discipline is like a circle.
What goes round, comes round.
Discipline is beneficial to both man and wife.

In a DD relationship, the two partners have agreed to a power exchange.
One is the leader of the house and the other is the submissive.
But not only does the submissive have to work on changing her behavior, so does the HoH.

We made a list of things we both would work on to make our relationship better and more loving.
I have many things I have to work on and change for us to have a happy home.
My Jack doesn't have many at all - but he does have anger issues which he is working on. 
What helps him the most is when he disciplines me.
 How, you ask?

Imagine the following.

I might say something that Jack misunderstands. Instead of asking me for an explanation, 
he gets angry and yells at me.

 I yell back that he is not listening to what I say!
He then tells me to be quiet, which I don't, because I know this is a case of misunderstanding.

When he tells me to be quiet again, to avoid an argument -  I turn my back, walk out of the room and slam the door.

Later, when Daddy Jack has had time to think -  he discovers the error, he apologizes and I forgive him immediately, because that is what we agreed upon.

But that doesn't change the fact that he needs to spank me for being disobedient (yelling back at him) and being disrespectful (by turning my back and slamming the door)

Knowing he has to discipline me upsets him, because he has to spank me for a dilemma that he put me in. 
If this helps him become more aware of his anger issues, then I am more than happy to be disciplined.
He is my husband, my HoH, my love, my leader - he comes first.
So we both benefit from discipline - in each our own ways.
He learns that his actions have consequences for the both of us.
That is the beauty of Domestic Discipline. 

Jack's Jill 



Monday, February 18, 2013

Jill's Honesty Journal

Dear DD wives and friends!

I've been reading about journals, punishment books and lists that DD wives have written and then shown to their husbands.
I have also read about daily confessions and even women who have cameras installed in their homes, so their hubbys could keep an eye on them when at work.

Let me start by saying that I do not judge. 
If a wife and her HoH have decided that there should be cameras in their home - and they are happy with this and the wife feels safe and secure- and it works for them - I'm all for it.        To each his own.

I was deeply inspired by the fact that these wonderful women told their hubbys everything  DD related - they did during the day, both good and bad.
You may wonder why...................

but I totally understand why. 
It was to give their HoHs more authority and control of the house. 
He is the leader - he should know what goes on and if his wife is or is  not living up to her goals.Knowing what goes on, gives the husband the option to make decisions and discipline - if necessary, even though he isn't at home at the time of the infraction.

I see nothing wrong with this. But is does demand  love and trust - from both spouses.

An example from a journal:
One submissive wife had a bad habit of swearing, which her HoH was working hard at changing - but he had the problem of not knowing if she swore at home when he was a work. They both agreed that this was a problem, both at home with children and in public.
Being an honest woman - she decided to write down in her journal every time she swore during the day. This pleased her HoH because he could discipline her when he came home from work -  to help her change her bad habits - and it worked!!

What a beautiful form of honesty.
I've decided to try to write all the good things and bad things I do during the day and letting my HoH read them every night.
I believe the more my HoH knows what I do, the more in control he is.
I will gladly take the consequences - because they are for my own good - and I know my HoH will do anything he can to help me be a really good wife.

I chose this lifestyle, because I wanted to change my bad attitude with the help of my Hubby.
I would love to hear from others who have tried this.
I think I will learn a lot from this!

Jack's Jill

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

The Freedom of Domestic Discipline

If you're one of the lucky who have incorporated DD into your marriage later in life, or after the kids have moved away from home - I can only say what a freedom it is!

No worrying about the kids hearing mommy being spanked.

No trouble with corner-time and the kids coming in seeing mommy naked or  with her panties down around her ankles standing in a corner contemplating the reason for her discipline!

Not having to worry if the implement your HOH has decided to spank you with is noisy or not.

Hubby having the option to discipline anytime, anywhere he pleases.

Being able to pleasure and please him whenever - wherever!

If you feel the immediate need for maintenance - you can pull down your panties and be maintained  right then and there on the spot!

The freedom of a whole house to yourself is fantastic!
I've done my mommy duty - and am now enjoying the joys of wife duty!

Hugs from a happy sub!
Jack's Jill