(ourselves included) don't know where to begin when starting out with Domestic Discipline.
As far as I understand -half of the term Domestic Discipline is the word Discipline!
I personally don't want to start out with a punishment - that's for sure!!!
I'm trying really hard to come to terms with relinquishing control - letting Jack sail this ship and being respectful and obedient to his wishes.
Many wives out there are doing the same - and that's where we're at..............
Hubby doesn't really want to punish me for nothing. This is all new to him too!
So if we don't want to start out with a heavy-duty spanking - where do we start?
Perhaps with a spanking that helps my hubby to assert and establish his authority.
A spanking that says............Hubby is now in charge!
Well -- what do we have to work with at the moment?
- Punishment spankings
- Reminder spankings
- Maintenance spankings
I personally need a word or action that let's me know that:
"hubby is now in charge" - get over it, work on it, deal with it!
A spanking that shakes my "domestic house", rattles my inner- furniture
and let's things fall into place, in a whole new way.
A spanking that helps me to see my hubby in a whole new light - in awe and wonder.
A "He's the boss now" spanking and me loving it.
Changing old habits isn't easy. Bad habits have taken years to learn -
and now I need to un-learn them to help make our marriage a place without
So we'll be working on finding a new expression for this and implementing it asap!
So, stay tuned!