Jack and Jill's New Word

 I've been reading around in DD Blogland that lots of couples just starting out,
(ourselves included) don't know where to begin when starting out with Domestic Discipline.
As far as I understand -half of the term Domestic Discipline is the word Discipline!

I personally don't want to start out with a punishment - that's for sure!!!

I'm trying really hard to come to terms with relinquishing control - letting Jack sail this ship and being respectful and obedient to his wishes.
Many wives out there are doing the same - and that's where we're at..............
An impasse.
Hubby doesn't really want to punish me for nothing. This is all new to him too!

So if we don't want to start out with a heavy-duty spanking - where do we start?
Let's see...................
Perhaps with a spanking that helps my hubby to assert and establish his authority.
A spanking that says............Hubby is now in charge!

Well -- what do we have to work with at the moment?

• Punishment spankings
• Reminder spankings
• Maintenance spankings

But those terms don't seem to define what we need right now to get things going and to get things on track!
I personally need a word or action that let's me know that:
"hubby is now in charge" - get over it, work on it, deal with it!

A spanking that shakes my "domestic house", rattles my inner- furniture
and let's things fall into place, in a whole new way. 
A spanking that helps me to see my hubby in a whole new light  - in awe and wonder.
A "He's the boss now" spanking and me loving it.

Changing old habits isn't easy. Bad habits have taken years to learn - 
and now I need to un-learn them to help make our marriage a place without
a battle-of-the-wills. 
So we'll be working on finding a new expression for this and implementing it asap!
So, stay tuned!

Jack's Jill