Friday, November 9, 2012

Jack and Jill need help

Hubby and I are in the discussion phase of Domestic Discipline right now.
He's doing his homework; reads and we discuss why I think this will
bring us forward and together in our marriage.
It might seem a bit late - as we've been married for 22 years - but
many of those years have been a battle between our strong wills.
Suddenly I had a revelation one day. I found out how much I need him,
want him, love him and without my realizing -
he has been the HoH of our family for years!
He takes care of me in all that it entails, except for drawing the line
and disciplining me - which I feel I truly deserve.

Why I've fought him for so long probably has to do with the political
environment I grew up in. Women should be strong, independent, make
their own choices bla. bla. bla.................
I found Clint's site, Learning About Domestic Discipline, and boy did
I have a "light bulb" moment!
The best way to show my love and trust, is to let my hubby make
the major decisions and take an active part in how our marriage should
be run. I'm the one making waves - he should be the one to correct
and create peace and harmony.
I know he can do this - I just think he needs to come to terms with the
disciplinary site of DD,
More on this later!


  1. I love your posts. My husband and I are just starting out so it is great to have someone in the same place I am. Thanks for sharing. I have just started my own blog as well. Maybe we can work through this stuff together.

  2. Thank you so much!
    Let's keep in touch!
    Jack's Jill

  3. :D Anytime! It's always nice to have a friend.

  4. Hi Jack and Jill :)

    My husband and I have been married 23 three never to late to start :) We started DD around the 11 October.

    Welcome to the community. There is always acceptance here, and great people too.

    Good luck on your journey. As someone once said to me, 'there are up times and down times, but oh, so worth it'

  5. I thought I had left a Welcome the day you started!? I know I put you on the ADDS "All DD Blogs" list that day, must have forgot to come back afterward! My bad.
    Welcome welcome welcome! And if there's anything I can do to help another DD blogger, just let me know :)

  6. Thank you so much MrBBSpanker!
    Love your site and visit daily!
    Jack and Jill