Dear DD wives and friends!
I've been reading about journals, punishment books and lists that DD wives have written and then shown to their husbands.
I have also read about daily confessions and even women who have cameras installed in their homes, so their hubbys could keep an eye on them when at work.
Let me start by saying that I do not judge.
If a wife and her HoH have decided that there should be cameras in their
home - and they are happy with this and the wife feels safe and secure- and it works for them - I'm all for it. To each his own.
was deeply inspired by the fact that these wonderful women told their
hubbys everything DD related - they did during the day, both good and bad.
You may wonder why...................
I totally understand why.
It was to give their HoHs more authority and
control of the house.
He is the leader - he should know what goes on and
if his wife is or is not living up to her goals.Knowing what goes on, gives the husband the option to make decisions and discipline - if necessary, even though he isn't at home at the time of the infraction.
I see nothing wrong with this. But is does demand love and trust - from both spouses.
An example from a journal:
submissive wife had a bad habit of swearing, which her HoH was working hard at
changing - but he had the problem of not knowing if she swore at home
when he was a work. They both agreed that this was a problem, both at home with children and in public.
Being an honest woman - she decided to write down
in her journal every time she swore during the day. This pleased her HoH
because he could discipline her when he came home from work - to help her change her bad
habits - and it worked!!
What a beautiful form of honesty.
decided to try to write all the good things and bad things I do during
the day and letting my HoH read them every night.
I believe the more my HoH knows what I do, the more in control he is.
will gladly take the consequences - because they are for my own good -
and I know my HoH will do anything he can to help me be a really good wife.
I chose this lifestyle, because I wanted to change my bad attitude with the help of my Hubby.
I would love to hear from others who have tried this.
I think I will learn a lot from this!