So begins a new year.
A very different start to a new year, than last year, to say the least.
We have embraced Domestic Discipline and I don't think we'll ever look back.
I wrote on a blog somewhere, that I truly believe that there would be fewer divorces, if people lived a DD lifestyle.
Those who have embraced this lifestyle are looking for ways to make their marriage/relationship work - and to change the dynamics and roles is a big job - but so worth it!
We had our talk today about how things are going. We looked at our list and added some new goals we want to work on for the next 2 weeks. I am going to need help with these goals, and luckily Daddy Jack will help me to keep me in the right mind-set towards my goal of being a content, submissive wife. Jack has promised to give me light reminders 4 times a week and corner/thinking time, if he feels it's necessary.
On the other hand - I don't understand people who choose this lifestyle and then do everything they can to "break rules", brat, contradict and negotiate. That just doesn't make sense!
We've agreed that the only time I am to be spanked as punishment is if I break any of the 4 D rules. To be honest - I love him, why would I disobey, disrespect, be disloyal or dishonest to the man I love?
If things aren't going to satisfaction - then weekly talks should help. I'm not a mind reader, and neither is Jack, therefore those weekly talks are really, really important. It's the only way to know what each other is needing and to be on the same page.
I'm also looking forward to Jack giving me bedtime curfews - I know my mornings will be so much better, if he makes me go to bed earlier than I usually do. Some might think this is micro-managing, but I consider it a great help. I am a night person living and working at a day job.
Jack will be working on being attentive to my needs and his new responsibilities as head of the house.
That's about it for now.
Looking forward to a wonderful year!